Journal #4

I really don’t like when someone just comes with me with just complaints. That is negative energy that can cloud your mind. When having negative energy, you can’t focus on your daily activities. I would like that person to greet me then say they have a problem with something I have done something or something that was reported back to them from another staff or their child. It is very rude and makes you not ever want to talk to them. I would always make myself look busy, so I would have to hear them talk to me. I always use someone name when talking to them. It lets them know that you are talking to them and it a conversation for just you and that person. My mother named me, so I think people should greet other people by their name or in a friendly manner. I would not want to talk to someone every day and not even greet them. Eye contact is eye to any way to communicate with people. It is very important. You use eye contact to communicate many emotions. Talking to people with you need eye contact. When you don’t have it, that people will not focus on the conversation at head. I have done this before to a few people. I understand that I didn’t treat them well, but I was very upset that that moment. I should have step back and just and breathe before I went up to that person beforehand.